Apparently to be alone and single is a fate worse than being in a bad relationship. I’m here to tell you that it’s not.
SLUT
My mum always told me never to call another woman a ‘slut’ because in doing so I was permitting men to call me a ‘slut’.
I touch myself
Not only is masturbation one of the most natural acts a woman can treat herself to, but it is an expression of love and self care. You can discover so much about yourself, and what you like through masturbation.
On becoming a pegasus
To me there is nothing sexier than a woman wearing a strap on.
Here are some things that I have learned along the way about pegging.
Dear Man,
Quite often people do things that irritate me or I am faced with situations where I feel uncomfortable.
I’ve always had this strong compulsion to be wholly honest, but of course I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.
Sexual Experience vs. Sexual Openness
I was talking to an old sex friend today about my dick spreadsheet, which launched a conversation about sexual experience and how one can define sexual experience.
Quantifying Sex
Can you quantify sex? What makes sex with a man good? Is it the size of his penis, or maybe even the shape? I’ve been curious about these questions for quite sometime and like a weirdo, I decided to create an Excel spreadsheet.
My worry rainbow 🌈
Recently I’ve been seeing a psychologist regularly, reading a lot and writing down everything as a way of processing.
The therapy has dug up a load of past trauma and also new trauma. So here’s how I’m beginning the process of getting through it all.
Camouflage: blending in to ‘fit’ in
At school I really struggled to fit in.
Many women with ASD experience social isolation in high school, and means many women didn’t have female friends as teenagers. These friends are crucial for a woman’s social development.
The big one: finding out I had ASD
The day I found out I was autistic, it left me speechless.
It felt like I was somehow late to the party.
