Happy s i n g l e

Apparently to be alone and single is a fate worse than being in a bad relationship. I’m here to tell you that it’s not.

SLUT

My mum always told me never to call another woman a ‘slut’ because in doing so I was permitting men to call me a ‘slut’.

On becoming a pegasus

To me there is nothing sexier than a woman wearing a strap on.
Here are some things that I have learned along the way about pegging.

Dear Man,

Quite often people do things that irritate me or I am faced with situations where I feel uncomfortable.
I’ve always had this strong compulsion to be wholly honest, but of course I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.

Camouflage: blending in to ‘fit’ in

At school I really struggled to fit in.
Many women with ASD experience social isolation in high school, and means many women didn’t have female friends as teenagers. These friends are crucial for a woman’s social development.

It’s a wonderful day to dump him

Almost six years to the day I dumped a toxic man from my life, and it was one of the best decisions I ever made.
CW: some descriptions of domestic violence and rape.

How to talk about S-E-X

I think most people are curious about sex but are not sure who to chat to.
Here’s how I learned to balance juicy details, whilst being sensitive and find empowerment in talking about sex.

I might be autistic but I still have feelings

Contrary to belief, I’m a deeply sensitive person. Just because I’m autistic doesn’t mean I don’t have feelings or even form feelings for others.

Why I’m dedicating time to be selfish

Selfishness is often perceived as a quality to be avoided. We’re told as children that we should always share, always be considerate, always be obedient.

Zoom Dating

There are many ways to meet people these days; Tinder, Hinge, Bumble – just to name a few. Zoom was definitely the most interesting platform I have had experience with so far.